eletaliter replied to your post: yungdoctor said:Hey could you exp…
i’m confused tbh pls explain??
what specifically is confusing about it? i’m happy to clarify or expand but i feel that’s pretty self-explanatory
just bc if one is assigned fem at birth and also trans then how do they identity as girl? like that’s cool but doesn’t make u not trans like u r the gender assigned to u at birth so ur just what you identify to be… pls explain I do not mean to sound rude if I do
transness isn’t just being in a different category from your asab. it includes consciousness and mindfulness and self-determination and so on. the tools of transness aren’t limited to changing what category you exist in, they include taking power over parts of your life that cisness rejects us having power over, which for girls is a lot of things
like, to be concrete: someone can be afab and a girl and want not to be cis because they don’t like cisness and don’t feel comfortable in cultures that are primarily cis and even if that person doesn’t have a specific label yet i don’t really feel uncomfortable w. them thinking of themselves as trans / not cis
someone can be afab and a girl and be agender or gq or something similar in the nb zone. not every afab person who uses these labels sees themselves as a girl or welcomes being seen as one but not everyone who uses them doesn’t see themselves as a girl. i’m not afab but i actually feel deeply uncomfortable if ppl start treating my agender thing as precluding being a girl also
someone can be afab and a girl and employ stuff that is normally gatekept by doctors so access to it is limited to non-girls. like i know girls who are on t or are trying to get on t b/c that’s what they want for their bodies. that’s a trans thing also and is extremely cool
Be wary of those who apologize for how you feel instead of apologizing for what they did to you
My gender is megaman x command mission
Peak aestjhetic is so gbender neutral that sihtty boys start crying when they see me
i wish i had less boy friends and More girlfriends know what i mean?
boys suck in the sense that men are a terrible class built upon abuse and death and violence towards non-men